🌱 Results:
It is normal when you are at a crossroads, not to understand your feelings. You need to feel safe before you can make a decision. Most importantly, you need clarity on what you need so can make the best decision for yourself.
Sometimes, we hold tightly to something familiar: an identity, a relationship, belief, or routine, even if it no longer aligns.
This is not about weakness. It’s about safety. Not knowing what’s next makes it hard to commit, even if you’re uncomfortable now. Your nervous system may be stuck in freeze, waiting for a sense of direction or reassurance that never fully comes.
Oftentimes, indecision is rooted in self-doubt. You may not trust your inner resources, fear being wrong, or worry what others will think. Your inner critic is louder than your inner guide right now, but that can shift.
You need support to gently release attachment, grieve the old, and remember what you’re capable of. Interventions such as Polyvagal and Eco-therapy techniques are helpful for this.
Ready to stop circling and finally choose your next chapter?
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In the meantime, here are some 3 tangible actions you can take to start going in the direction you want and need:
Identify 3 values that are important to you.
Use social media to your advantage: follow 5 accounts that support your values, and unfollow 5 that don’t.
Imagine an average day, where you follow your values and you are surrounded by those that agree with those values. Just take in how that feels in your body to experience it, and savor.